Where "Up yourself" Comes From
First recorded in the mid-20th century as a blunt contraction of "up one's own arse", this phrase is one of the most devastating put-downs in the Australian lexicon. Because Australian culture fiercely values mateship and despises the "tall poppy" who boasts about their success, being called "up yourself" is the ultimate social red card!
"He's been a bit up himself since he got the promotion."
How Aussies Actually Use It
Up yourself is a casual put-down for someone who is showing off or thinks they are better than everyone else. The word changes with the person, so you will hear "up himself" and "up herself" too.
It is not a polite thing to say about someone, so it is mostly used behind their back or between close friends. It is a good example of how Australians often tease people who talk themselves up.
See also: Tall poppy (a successful person others like to cut down to size).
Say It Like an Aussie
Say it: UP yer-SELF.
In conversation:
- He’s a bit up himself since the promotion.
- She’s not up herself, she’s just shy.
- Don’t get up yourself, mate.
Good to know: It’s a mild put-down, and it’s often said about someone who’s showing off. Among mates it’s usually a teasing nudge.
See also: Tall poppy, Skite, Pull your head in
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